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To Rise Get Organise

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There are times when we all feel low and things seems messed up starting from our wardrobe to office desk including the relationships you are into. You must have observed when one important thing of your life goes out of track, sooner other things follows the pattern. In short quite soon everything look scattered and you found yourself messed up with no clue to the solution. You know there is one thing which is very common in every successful person i.e. they are highly organised. Highly organised in every sphere of their lives. Now you’ll ask whats the relation between being messed up and getting highly organised. Indeed, there is a direct co relation between these two. When you feel messed up you found everything unorganised and scattered. Your sleeping and wake up time differ so much, you take much longer time to decide what to wear today, you start reaching late to the office, your family start feeling and complaints that you don’t have time for them, your friends says ...

Strongest Roots

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In some of the countries they call them incarnation of  God . Purest form of  Human Being . They either trust you completely or won’t a bit. They make a woman complete as in a  Mother , a man as in a  Father . Bunch of people becomes a  Family  when they step in. They’re  Children . Children are the best example of  Truly Living  and  Living in the Moment.  They just do, right from the bottom of their heart, whatever they do. They only play when they play. They become damn demanding when they want something. They’re sweetest when they smile looking at you, hug you. They just do a hell lot of things so easily and effortlessly we elders find doing exact opposite and damn difficult. They express their emotions flawlessly. Different Scenario – 244 million migrants and refugees worldwide, forced to leave their mother land and homes, abuse, exploitation, trafficking, violence, evidences of shouting people with guns in their hand...

The Ultimate Sign That shows You Are Lost

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When somewhere deep down in the corner of your heart you feel that something is wrong with you. When you sound different to others and yourself, often feels that itchy sensations which keeps you disturbed. And if you think that you're the only one who is going through all this mess? have a sigh of relief, there are many. What do you think the decisions you take in your day to day life, are purely yours? Sorry buddy, the truth is NO. The result of unbalanced and unhealthy life style, increased work pressure and working hours, continuous hammering of television and radio, ever most demanding social structure, complex relationships, the never ending quest of running after social media and soon YOU'RE LOST before you even realise.  Those who are going through this must be understanding the unbearable pain of what i am talking about. Folks, let me help you out. There is a ultimate sign to identify that you're lost in your life, you're out of track like ...

Journey of A Boy

Year 1999 A Boy. 16 years old, eldest one. Semi rural southern central area, India. Below middle class status. Mother father with 4 children. Financial breakdown. Father was shocked and helpless. Mother had to work in farms and fields above 40 degree temperature. Boy forced himself to work in a factory at boiler machine which  generate steam to run industrial raw cloth processing machines, 12 hours a day, sometimes 36 hours in a row. Meanwhile continued graduation after schooling. Year 2003 Boy, In summer and in second year of graduation, trying hard to improve things and in the process encountered with an ad of Central Para Military Services in employment news paper. He applied, started preparing and got on-board after physical, written and medical tests, in winter. Year 2008 Boy, completed training under Brave and Fantastic Officers (He Still admire them). Won Best Cadet Award, Best Drill, Lead 180 Cadets from the front as a Parade Commander. Completed Medial Course i...

Why We Have? What We Have

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Reassure yourself - Life is so Beautiful and Simple. We make it complicated by not listening what universe is trying to convey us in it's unique language, we make it complicated by more complex relationships, by not giving certain attention to our social and societal structure demands. We make life complex exact opposite it should be naturally. That's the reason, I talk in as much as possibly simple way. Here is another simple thing - Why Do We Have, What We Have? , question sounds pretty complex, but it isn't. Why there is so inequality in the world? Why few people own large chunk of Wealth (all kind of it), Mental Peace and Health, and the rest keep fighting for basic standard of life and amenities? General answers are - # They are rich people. # They had better education. # They had better opportunities. # They are very lucky people. And the list goes on. I say none of the above is a correct answer, in fact those all are wrong answers. You know...

Start Afresh

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Start Afresh and Start It Now. Today is  Gudi Padwa  - derived from the Sanskrit name for Chaitra Shukla Pratipad. It's a festival celebrated on the first day of Chaitra month to mark the beginning of the new year according to the Lunisolar Hindu Calendar. I believe that everyday is a new day as a Blessing and as an Opportunity, and nothing can beat living each and every day fully, making each day count. Still, if some people take New Year, be it 1st of January (new year according to Gregorian Calendar) or Gudi Padwa (new year according to Lunisolar Hindu Calendar), a milestone to start with, be it that way. What matters most, whenever your mind is in best possible condition to start a new beginning, Just Do It. Take this opportunity to Start Afresh. It's all about Mindset and conditioning of your Mind to make a new start, new beginning, new learning, new venture and to reinvent the new You. Everything starts with Mind. Remember, everybody gets knocked down some...

Get Yourself In A Damn Difficult Situation

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Commonly heard saying - “A  ship  in  harbour  is  safe  — but that is not what  they  are built for.” — John A. Shedd. Being a human we like to be in our comfort zone doing what we usually like to, not much up and down, no zig zag, vaporising our days just by repeating our routines. Afterwards it's none other but we who blame our life as very general, good for nothing, impact less, unfulfilled, unsatisfied and bored. (Yaar jindagi me maza nahi aa raha hai - are bhai maza dukaan se kharid ke lao kya?) You know what? The interesting fact is, we are not like this by nature.  Remember your childhood when you were full of energy, damn hopeful about everything, full of dreams, almost fearless and ready to do anything, having so many goals to be achieved, eager to do so much and more.  But in the process of getting old (so many call it getting mature) we try to behave in a preset socially acceptable manner and we do i...

Google Is In Danger

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Google Is In Danger (yes you heard it right - though apologies that I'm writing this post on the platform given free by Google  itself) - Have you heard about  Slack  ,  Jelly  (now owned by Pinterest) ,  Medium  ? There are certain things which are going to keep or even you can say keeping themselves ahead of (in near future) Internet giant  Google  and other big players such as Facebook  and Snapchat . Certainly it need real guts and really awesome things to do so but what are those? Here they are  - As I say "Your Greatest Opportunity Lies In Your Smallest Acts". It's just an elaborated version of this simple but effective technique. They all are making things damn Simpler and better with increased Simplicity, Security and Transparency. Generally, being a human we tend to think that there are certain things we can't do better, but let me tell you - yes there is and there always is. Not getting it? Here is the example....

Stop Being A JOKE

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Most of the people specially young generation, when you ask them why they use social media like Whats App or Facebook? They found themselves in uncomfortable situation, stuck and answers like mmmm..., just like that, yun hi bas, timepass, trying to be famous, trying to make the difference they want to see, spreading gyaan, chatting, fun, jokes etc etc. Remember "One Becomes What One Practices". You are practising jokes and one fine day you will end up making your Life, your Relationship a JOKE. You will finally become the source of fun for other people, your society and relatives until they themselves end up being another source of fun for some other people. Let me tell you one thing, please calculate the time your'e wasting on your smart phone screen on the name of fun? and on what cost? On the cost of Health, Family, Social balance, Being in mental peace and list goes on. Let me also remind folks, it's one life and we all have given limited time here. We are...

Playing From The Front

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Leadership has got a new name recently - Namo -  Narendra Damordardas Modi, Prime Minister of India. So, here is a perfect example of Mindset and the output of what one truly Believes. You must have understood till time that I am talking about recent legislative assembly elections 2017. So, what actually happened? The nearest possible defining answer is - Miracle. The miracle that so many are not able to believe yet, and its none of their fault. No one has predicted the huge amount of victory for BJP not even BJP itself, let apart the previous Chief Minister Akhilesh Yadav or Rahul Gandhi or Mayawati. Numbers are saying that this is the biggest verdict anyone has got in independent India. Modi alone made it possible to snatch 312 seats out of total 403. The 132 year old party in Indian history, Indian National Congress founded on 28 December 1885 is fighting really hard for its existence in the state with only 07 seats. Now the question is, How Modi did this? I have the...

You Are Still Alive

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SHAKE yourself hard and SCREAM loud, you’re not dead yet, still alive. Do not give up on life so easily. Its one life and way much precious than you think. Don’t take it too ordinarily. Make it meaningful and big, see a dream, collect your all energy, focus and turn it into reality. Ask yourself; Are you walking with any purpose and hope or your days are just passing by meaningless? There might be few things not going good in your life. Some might also be waiting to the things for getting slightly better. Shake up yourself and ask, are these the true reasons holding you back? What are you waiting for; A good time, a good opportunity? If it is so then it isn’t going to happen. Nothing happens until you do something. Things don’t change until you make it change, and to change things first you need to change yourself in so many ways. You need to change your habits, routine, life style and thinking. Keep trying differently until it works. Remember weren’t here till eternity and...

Stop Following Start Doing

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We're surrounded by various learning platforms in running technological era like  Google ,   Facebook ,  HBR ,  Entrepreneur  and so many others. Huge amount of knowledge and relevant things available here, even you can get an enlightening idea on these places. Ok! Till now it's all going traditional and nothing out of the way. Above platforms are good to start learning process and even great to take the next leap. Still there are few things which cannot be replaced by anything and those are courage, risk taking, ability to stand apart and doing something new. Experiences cannot be learned as it can only be earned. There are certain things you cannot understand by depth unless its practiced. Each entity behave and react differently to the things and happenings. That's what initiate your reaction and that too in a unique way because each person is different by nature and so are the reactions. One cannot make a strong image, product or serv...

Go Beyond

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You’re limited by so many means. Yes, you’re limited! You’re limited by the days and years you’re going to live. You’re limited by those two hands, two legs, body and one mind. You’re also limited by the energy you posses as in a human being. Whoa! Wait, that doesn’t mean you’re limited by all means. An individual filled up with passion contains the power of thousands. You can be limitless and achieve the goals successfully you have set for yourself. Yes, we have limited time duration but there is nothing can stop us if we use it beautifully with focus, determination and perseverance. Yes, of course; we’ve two hands and so everybody else. Gather outstanding people ,create a great team and engage it the making of your dream sculpture. You can go way out of the limit using your willpower and burning desire for a particular thing or aim. Set your own life rules and keep those in one hand while taking help of technological advancements through another. We’re living in an e...

Do Not Get Settled

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There are many people out there who say life has not been fair with them; they tried so many times on so many things too hard to change the scenario. Just lean back, sit and relax. Take a break and give time to yourself. Everything happens for a reason. Might be you tried hard but someone must have been tried even harder and won. It’s not you who have lost; it was just only an event you couldn’t get through out of. Don’t beat up yourself. Don’t be so hard with your own self, let go this time. Sit in solitude; not to get depressed but to become thoughtful. Look within. Recollect yourself, prepare again and reset yourself for the battle again with more power, energy and stamina. Yes, you can do it once again because only you have been doing it successfully till now. Have you seen anybody become a winner overnight or without a significant amount of struggle? Yes, the length may differ person to person. Keep in mind; the bigger the battle is, the bigger the victory wou...

Be Amazing

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To start with this sagacious quote “No man ever steps in the same river twice, for it’s not the same river and he’s not the same man” by great #Heraclitus. If a same situation will be given to three different people at a same time, their reactions would be different, never same. Even if the same person will react differently each time, for the same situation given at three different times. Why? Weren’t machines, we’re alive and naturally evolved not mechanically. We’re human beings and we all are entirely different and unique in our own way. There is no duplication. Even there is no repetition; every single thing live or dead, you, I, nature, earth and this entire universe is changing every moment. Since long we have developed a tendency to categorize things and people for our own ease like educated/uneducated, rich/poor, salaried/self employed, middle class/low class, this religion/that religion and list goes on and on. Do we really can be classified in those r...

Time Is Running Out

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On regular basis we heard time is running out, days are passing by and life is going to end soon. Time doesn't wait for anybody or anything. It passes by in it's own pace, consistently and continuously. All agreed? OK got it. But I do have a different perspective on this. From eternity we're watching Sun arises in morning and Moon comes on surface at night. Trees are growing in their own steady style and change leaves every spring. Oceans are spilling and producing invaluable's from centuries and rivers flowing. What's changing and dying quickly is We, We the human beings. Moreover in our daily lives we react as we're not going to die for centuries. How contradictory is this, that we are the creature possibly love the life more than any other living thing but least interested in living it in true sense. Do remind yourself that we haven't created this earth and nature in stead of we're perishable and a small proportion of it. The Sun, Mo...

Thing Scares Most

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Golu! Came the voice from outside home when I was dressing up for the work. I tilt my head to see who's calling my younger brother Golu? A thin man was standing outside wearing pale yellowish white traditional farmer's clothing and yes I recognized him too. He was our neighbor and have seen this man from childhood, always full of energy and ready to shoot. Never seen him taking off from work or on holiday, totally workaholic. A general person who loves routine and monotonous life. But today I saw something unusual in his behavior. He was not seeing things but trying to feel through his senses. First time I saw him standing with lack of confidence, so low and dependent. The fear had taken place in his eyes in stead of bravery and shine. The emotions I saw on his face cannot be described. I saw and felt the above all things in a fraction of second. A lightening went through my spine and this was the moment I felt scared in long time. A storm of thoughts went through my ...

It's Important

It's important. It's important to know what's important that makes positive changes in life. The practices you follow on daily basis, the people you spend your time with regularly and what are the conversations you're engaged in with them. They must make a positive impact on your thinking and character at largely . They must push you to increase your skills, shorten your limitations and makes you bigger and better than you were before. Remember again we all are here for a limited time and it's the time we've given to live and to live in a great way. Do not stop or limit yourself. Let yourself release and unleash to go through the greatness supreme power you've made for.  ‪#‎ RememberYourself‬   ‪#‎ BeGreat‬

Monotony Kills

Life must not count in years, not in months not even in weeks but days. Give a shot to think why nature works in a certain way? Why there are days and nights? Though it all seems repetitive but it's not. Nature never repeats itself. There is a pattern we need to understand. Every day sun sets and arise every morning with new hope, new energy and with something astonishingly fresh .  Then why we repeat our identity every day? Yes there must be continuity and consistency but not monotony. It kills what's still alive and fresh with in you. It kills the power to take risk and courage to stand apart. It kills the super creative genius with in you. Take it, you're much much more than what you think you're. Be spontaneous, try different things, mingle with different people having different backgrounds, take it easy, be super light. Problems are just a negligible part with compared to all goodness we've with in and all around us. 

The Pinnacle

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I was enjoying smoke lying on sofa when she came in and asked innocently, where is aunty, uncle? She was trying to ask this from last 15 days but today she got the chance because the door was locked since then. Swiftly I shifted from another world to the more real one where the l'l girl was standing in front of me with that all innocence (her face, her question, gesture and what not) . Then the next moment she left me amazed through walking out of the room (she left a poor person to think of either answer of her question or repenting on she saw me smoking) . I went after her and said, come in princess. she came back and shoot the same question, where is aunty, uncle? I haven't saw her from long and when she w'll be back? I hold her small beautiful hand and took her to kitchen and opened fridge to offer her different kind of sweets and chocolates just to add more sweetness to her. The way she was looking to me I got the point that she was still waiting answer of ...